Thursday, 26 May 2011

Scotland, Farewell


A run down of our last week here:

Friday: Epic BBQ/dance party hosted by Diego & Chris.

Saturday: Lovely dinner with Ian & Elanor at their place; Brown Curlyheads beat Gingers at Auction 45, but there will be a rematch (watch out B & E)!

Sunday: Kasia’s birthday party, last session of Growing Married.

Monday: We begin to worry that Mt. Grimsvotn might ruin our plans to fly home on the 27th.

Tuesday: Brendan writes his last exam; last Marshall Extravaganza at our place.

Wednesday: Packing & cleaning; frequent checking of flight status as the ash cloud travels south.

Thursday: More packing & cleaning, last walk around town, goodbye visits from friends. So far so good in terms of flight schedule: we’ll be waking up at 4am tomorrow morning to make it to Edinburgh for our 6:30 flight.

It’s hard to put into words what the time here has meant to us. I’ll save the deeper reflection for another moment, as we still have a few things to pack and must get ourselves to bed shortly. For now, we say farewell to Stirling and to all those who have made our stay here so memorable. You have enriched our lives immensely and we will miss you. We hope our paths will cross again.

To those waiting for us back home: we can’t wait to see you again and look forward to sharing with you the next chapter of our adventures!

Thursday, 19 May 2011

Quest for the Holy Grail and Other Adventures

Last week, Brendan rented a car for a meeting in Glasgow, so we took advantage of the freedom of wheels to make a couple mini trips around the area.

On Wednesday, we visited Doune Castle. It is a well-preserved ruin, recognizable as the set for Monty Python and the Holy Grail. One of the film’s directors recorded an audio tour of the castle, which includes historical information as well as tidbits from the film – such as an audio track of the following scene:












On our way back from the castle, we stopped at the Deanston Distillery for a whisky tasting. That evening, Fr. Kenneth, Catriona, and Frankie joined us for dinner.

On Thursday we drove through Trossachs National Park to catch a glimpse of Loch Lomond. It was a long drive and our time was short, but we did stop to take a walk by the shore. Here we are in Balloch Castle gardens, by Loch Lomond:








Thursday night was Brendan’s Energy Management class party. Christy came to watch Liam for us and we went out for a night on the town! It was fun. Saturday we were invited to dinner at Alex and Johanna’s (the friend I met at Baby Sensory), and Sunday Fr. Kenneth took us out for lunch in Sherrifmuir (about 20 minutes from Stirling). Brendan had wanted to go there to see bunkers that were used to practice the D-Day landings (wherever there’s WWII stuff to see, Brendan will find it!).



This week we have begun the packing project. We’ve acquired a lot of stuff since we got here that will have to be crammed into suitcases – it stresses me out a bit, but Brendan is confident in his cramming abilities. I’ve resolved to trust him and not worry about it!

Playing with Liam is a good way to avoid dwelling on the packing monster. On Tuesday I met up with Johanna and we took the babies to a play castle. I remember loving this this kind of thing when I was a kid.




Brendan writes his first exam tomorrow. After that there will be a few dinners with friends, the final exam, more packing, and then goodbyes… 

Monkey Boy rearranging Dad's closet...
...and helping to pack for the move!

Tuesday, 10 May 2011

The Beginning of Lasts

On Friday the 6th, Brendan attended the last class of his Master’s in Energy Management. We also went to our last official CathSoc event of the semester, a BBQ at St. Mary’s.


It’s hard to describe my feelings in these last few weeks. Everyday I anticipate the excitement of arriving at the Ottawa airport and seeing the faces of people I love. Everyday I think of how hard it will be to say goodbye to Stirling, to the friends we’ve made here, and the life we’ve so enjoyed. If we had never come here, we wouldn’t have to go through the heartache of leaving so much behind. Our knowledge of Scotland, of its rugged beauty and good people, would be limited to hearsay. But now we know, and when we’re gone, we’ll miss it. Nevertheless, the twinge of nostalgia is a small price to pay for such a rich life experience. I don’t want to protect myself from heartache by not seeing things, not meeting people, not loving life. That would be far too costly. Brendan and I are of the same mind: it is much better to expand our hearts to welcome more people and places – to make room for more of life – than to limit ourselves to what we already know, even at the risk of having to say goodbye.

In this time of lasts, there are also firsts, most notable of which was my first Mother’s Day (to a child I can see, that is – I considered myself a mother last year too, even though my baby wasn’t born). We went out for lunch to celebrate. I have expressed my thoughts on motherhood in previous posts – I love it and cannot imagine living any other life. Liam has been uncharacteristically cranky for the past couple weeks, which has challenged me – but although I’m worn out, I’m no less in love. Here’s our little guy at 8 months:


 How could you not love a face like that?!

There will be many more firsts to come in the next few months, and many exciting things to look forward to: meeting babies that were born while we were away, moving back into our home, two family weddings, a niece due in September, holidays in New Brunswick… these things keep me from brooding too much over our imminent goodbyes. These, and a profound sense of gratitude for the gift of this year. 

The Whisky Trail

Brendan loves whisky. When we planned this trip, we were unaware that we had chosen to travel during the Spirit of Speyside Whisky Festival. Just imagine Brendan’s delight when he discovered this happy coincidence! He would not only get to do one whisky tasting, but possibly several – and visit not only one distillery, but many! His eyes lit up just thinking about it!




Boat of Garten, where we were staying, is about a 45-minute drive from Dufftown, home of the Glenfiddich Distillery and heart of the festival. Before arriving in Dufftown, however, we made a quick stop at Aberlour to visit the distillery there. We did not arrive in time for the tour (which we discovered wasn’t suitable for us anyway – it was 2 hours long and not open to Liam), but we took a few pictures.




Our next stop was the Glenlivet Distillery. Liam wasn’t allowed on the tour there either, so he and I stayed behind while Brendan and Christy learned about George Smith’s whisky making. The day was perfect, once again, so Liam and I enjoyed a walk around the beautiful Glenlivet estate before catching up with the others. Brendan was beaming as he came out of the warehouse. It had been a great tour, he told me, with an exceptional guide. We then tasted the whiskies – a 12 year old, a 16 year old cask strength, and an 18 year old. The favourite was the cask strength, which can only be purchased at the distillery. It can now also be tasted at our house (but only on very special occasions!). ☺






We then visited Glenfiddich. This time B and I went inside while Christy babysat. My favourite part of the tour was being greeted by different smells around every corner – it’s amazing what variety of aroma and flavour that can be gleaned from just three simple ingredients (whisky is made of water, malted barley, and yeast).




Balvenie Castle is a short walk from the Glenfiddich Distillery, so we went there next. The Balvenie Distillery is located a bit further off, but the shop at the castle was offering a free whisky and shortbread tasting in honour of the festival. We partook, naturally!


Liam at Balvenie Castle





The day was getting on at this point, so we found ourselves a place to sit down and enjoy a good Scottish steak. The restaurant we chose was the self-proclaimed best around. The food was good, but the atmosphere was… well, strange. The restaurant doubled as an antique shop and was cluttered with old stuff from floor to ceiling. Most of the pictures on the wall had price tags on them – apparently everything was for sale. The place also had a jukebox, which Brendan had to try. He put in his coins and chose an Elvis tune – the song then blasted through the whole restaurant at an absurd volume. The owner quickly rushed over to turn the thing down, but that proved trickier than anticipated. He finally succeeded, and the rest of Brendan’s songs played softly in the background.


The biggest surprise at this restaurant was our discovery of the ladies bathroom. I opened the door expecting to see a tiny cubicle and was met instead with a sweeping staircase, which led to a whole other antique-cluttered room (the ladies toilet being in a tiny cubicle at the back of the room)! My description fails to appropriately convey the shock of this spectacle. I wish we had taken pictures.


We returned to the hostel that evening well satisfied with the events of the day, and after snacks and conversation, retired for the night.


The next day we packed up for the trip home. We made only one stop, in Dalwhinnie. Dalwhinnie is one of Brendan’s favourite whiskies, so he wanted to visit that distillery. We didn’t have time for the tour, but we did taste some whisky, this time enjoying the privilege of trying a 21-year-old – a rare treat indeed!





We arrived home around midday, just in time for Brendan to make it to a lunch meeting. So ended our last road trip through Scotland. Although there are many parts of this beautiful country we have not seen, we’ve done our best to take in as much of it as we could during our time here. We’ve been coast to coast, north and south, visited three islands and fallen in love with the hills… it’s hard to believe we’ll be leaving this place so soon. Whether we make it back in the future or not, Scotland will always be a second home to us.

Monday, 9 May 2011

Grandma Isabella's House

On Saturday morning, we drove a short distance from John O’Groats to Duncansby Head. Friends had recommended we visit this spot to take in the amazing view.



We were the only visitors that day!
From there we headed west, keeping close to the northern coast, stopping periodically when something caught our interest.

View of Orkney from Dunnet Head



Our destination was Talmine, a tiny town on Kyle of Tongue (an inlet on the northern coast). My great-grandmother (my dad’s father’s mother), Isabella MacKenzie, had lived there as a child before emigrating to Canada. My aunt visited Talmine several years ago and told me it was a beautiful place. Still, we were totally unprepared for what awaited us in this remote corner of the world.

The first of the breathtaking beach views...

Stopping at the bridge across Kyle of Tongue
A view of the bridge: ocean to the left, hills to the right
(the previous photo was taken on the right side of this road)
The coastal road was narrow and winding, every bend offering a new perspective on the glorious landscape. I could not have imagined a more beautiful place to live.

Panorama of Kyle of Tongue


I had what I thought was my great-grandmother’s address, but when we arrived in town, we couldn’t match it up with a house. We asked a few locals, but no one seemed to know of the MacKenzie family. Finally, we stopped at a nursing home, where a few ladies were out enjoying the sunshine. Several staff greeted us warmly and one approached to talk to us. I told her we were looking for the house of Bertie MacKenzie – Bertie, the wife of my great-grandmother’s brother Hector, was the most recent occupant of the house (the house has been empty since Bertie moved to southern Scotland, but is still owned by the family). I told the woman, whose name was Jane, that Bertie was a relative, and she said, “Well then, you’re related to me!” It turns out that Jane’s husband, George, is a second cousin of my grandad’s (George’s father and my great-grandmother were cousins)!!! Jane had known Hector and Bertie well, and directed us to their house. Since she was working that afternoon, she called her husband to show us around. We followed her directions and found the house we were looking for – where my great-grandmother and her siblings were raised, and where Hector and Bertie raised their own family.

The view from Grandma Isabella's front door
The house


A few minutes after we arrived at the house, George pulled up in his camper van and introduced himself. He invited us back to his place, so we followed him there and went in for tea. He also introduced us to his grandson, Callum, who (I worked this out later!) is my fourth cousin. We had a nice visit, but had to get back on the road sooner than we would have liked. We promised that if we ever made it back there, we would stay longer.

I called my dad as soon as we got back in the car to tell him about the place and our family finding adventure. As soon as I got off the phone with him, he called his parents to share the news (I found this out later when I called my grandparents myself). I really wished my dad could have been there with us. I tried as best I could to describe the place, but nothing seemed adequate to what I saw. It’s so astoundingly beautiful… It was also neat to have met some distant relatives. Before we left on this trip I secretly hoped that something like this would happen. It was fun to see it play out!

One last shot of the beach
Our journey that afternoon and evening took us back through Inverness and into a small town called Boat of Garten, where Brendan had found us rooms in a hostel. This would be our home base for the next two days while we explored Speyside – Scotland’s whisky territory. 

Saturday, 7 May 2011

Head for the Hills!


On Friday, April 29th, Brendan, Liam, Christy and I set out for the Highlands. We had planned a four-day trip, with the joint purpose of visiting my great-grandmother’s house in northern Scotland and hitting up the Spirit of Speyside Whisky Festival. We set out mid-morning on Friday, after watching Kate Middleton arrive at Westminster Abbey (we had to see the dress, of course! …“we” being Christy and I).

Our first stop was Culloden battlefield (where Bonnie Prince Charlie and the Jacobites suffered their miserable defeat). We didn’t actually go into the visitor’s centre or really look at the battlefield, but we did get a photo next to the sign!


Next we stopped for lunch near the Harry Potter bridge (don’t tell Christy, but this isn’t the real Harry Potter bridge).




Then we visited Clava Cairns, an ancient burial site.



And ran into Humpty Dumpty (who fortunately did not fall, because he was being held up by his dad!).



Continuing on our journey, we made our way through Inverness, to the famous Loch Ness. We stopped at Urquhart Castle, one of Scotland’s most impressive ruins.





That night we stayed at a hostel in John O’Groats, on the northeastern coast of mainland Scotland – the very edge of the world…